Save Pin There's something about the sizzle of butter hitting a hot skillet that instantly puts me in a good mood. Years ago, a friend made me a grilled cheese with crispy bacon tucked inside, and I realized I'd been doing it wrong my whole life—the key was treating it like a proper sandwich, not just melting cheese between two sad pieces of bread. Now whenever I need something quick but substantial, this is the first thing I reach for. The sourdough gets gloriously golden, the cheddar melts into pockets of creamy goodness, and the bacon adds this smoky, salty layer that makes everyone ask for seconds.
I made this for my roommate during a lazy Sunday when we both had the kind of morning where nothing felt rushed. She bit into it, closed her eyes, and didn't say anything for a solid 10 seconds—which told me everything. That's when I knew this wasn't just lunch; it was the kind of comfort food that makes people remember exactly where they were when they ate it.
Ingredients
- 4 slices sourdough bread: The tang and chew of sourdough is non-negotiable here—it holds up to the heat and melted cheese without getting soggy or falling apart.
- 4 oz sharp cheddar cheese, sliced or grated: Sharp cheddar has enough flavor to stand up to the bacon; mild cheddar disappears into the background.
- 4 slices bacon: Render it until it's actually crispy, not just bendy—that's where the magic happens.
- 2 tbsp unsalted butter, softened: Softened butter spreads evenly without tearing the bread, and unsalted lets the cheese and bacon shine.
- 1 tbsp mayonnaise (optional): This is the secret weapon—it creates an extra-crispy exterior when you brush it on the outside of the bread before cooking.
- Freshly ground black pepper, to taste: A tiny pinch between the layers adds depth without overwhelming anything.
Instructions
- Cook the bacon until it shatters:
- Medium heat is your friend here—too hot and it burns before it gets crispy, too low and it just steams. You'll know it's done when it bends without flopping and breaks cleanly when you fold it.
- Butter the bread like you mean it:
- Spread softened butter on one side of each slice, or get fancy and add a thin layer of mayo to the inside-facing side for extra crunch. The butter should be visible but not pooling.
- Build the sandwich with intention:
- Bread buttered side down on your work surface, then cheddar, then bacon (break it into manageable pieces), then a whisper of pepper, then more cheese if you're feeling generous. Top with the other slice, buttered side facing out.
- Get the pan ready and cook low and slow:
- Medium-low heat gives the cheese time to actually melt while the bread turns golden instead of burning. Lay the sandwich in the skillet and listen—you should hear a gentle sizzle, not an aggressive roar.
- Press gently and flip with confidence:
- After 3–4 minutes, the bottom should be golden brown and smell incredible. Gently press with a spatula to help the cheese spread, then flip. The second side goes faster since the pan is already hot.
- Rest and slice:
- One minute off the heat lets everything set so the cheese doesn't pour out when you cut. Slice diagonally because it just tastes better that way.
Save Pin My partner came home during my lunch one afternoon and smelled the butter and bacon from the driveway. He asked for half without even asking what I was eating, which felt like the highest compliment a grilled cheese could receive. Now it's become our thing on nights when we're too tired to think about dinner but hungry enough to actually care.
The Cheese Factor
Sharp cheddar is the MVP here because it has enough personality to taste like something, not just like hot milk. I tried this once with a milder cheese because that's what I had, and honestly, it disappeared—the bread, bacon, and butter just overwhelmed it. If you want to swap it out, go for gruyère (nuttier and still sharp) or smoked gouda (adds another smoky layer), but avoid anything mild or you'll be disappointed.
Making It Your Own
The beauty of this sandwich is that it's a solid foundation that invites play. I've slipped in thin tomato slices on summer days (they add brightness without making it soggy), and caramelized onions are fantastic if you have time. One friend added a tiny dab of spicy mustard and changed my life. The sourdough and crispy bacon are the pillars—everything else is decoration.
Serving and Storage
This is absolutely best eaten immediately while everything is still warm and the cheese is still stretchy. Leftover sandwiches can be reheated in a skillet over low heat, but honestly, they're never quite the same—they're worth eating fresh. If you're making this for soup (tomato soup is traditional and for good reason), have everything ready to serve at the same moment so the sandwich doesn't cool while you're getting bowls.
- A quick tomato soup on the side turns this into a proper meal that feels special.
- If you have the mayo option, don't skip it—the difference in crispiness is real and worth the extra step.
- Diagonal cuts aren't just pretty; they're easier to hold and make the whole thing feel more intentional.
Save Pin This grilled cheese reminds me that sometimes the best meals aren't complicated—they're just made with intention and decent ingredients. It's the kind of sandwich that feeds your body and your mood in equal measure.
Recipe FAQs
- → What type of bread works best?
Sourdough bread provides the ideal combination of crust and softness, holding the fillings well and toasting evenly.
- → How can I make the sandwich extra crispy?
Butter the bread generously and press the sandwich gently while cooking. Adding a thin layer of mayonnaise can also increase crispiness.
- → Can I substitute the sharp cheddar?
Yes, gruyère or smoked gouda are excellent alternatives that melt well and complement bacon’s flavor.
- → Should the bacon be fully cooked before assembling?
Cooking bacon until crisp beforehand ensures it stays crunchy inside the sandwich and prevents excess grease during grilling.
- → What are some good additions to vary the flavor?
Consider adding thinly sliced tomatoes or caramelized onions for extra sweetness and texture contrast.